The Accidental Pastor's Wife

Which explains why I haven't posted anything for a while! We had our little girl on February 13, after a rather uneventful delivery. Of course, having a baby "sunny side up" is never pleasant, but she is healthy and beautiful and has totally captured her older brothers' hearts! She also slept for 4 hours straight last night! Yippee!!

Since we live in the middle of nowhere and can't get any TV reception without paying for it out the nose, we've been getting Netflix. One of our favorite shows right now is called Foyle's War--murder mystery set at the beginning of the second World War, often based on historical facts. We are totally addicted to it! Gotta love those Brits!

I found this hilarious new website and I had to share it with you! I'm too technologically inept to post anything from it, but I've had more fun watching it. I haven't laughed so hard in a long time.

www.rhettandlink.com

Click on the exploits link to watch video. I highly recommend Fear of Frogs and Unibrow...

Ummm...I guess I should homeschool now--don't tell the school district I've been slacking off...

If' you're a pastor's wife and haven't found this yet, you're totally missing out. It has been a huge source of encouragement for me. We have over 200 registered members now, but I feel like there are some of the ladies I know personally. Another pastor's wife, who used to have this awesome blog but has since focused more on the homefront, started this forum over the summer and little does she know how her ministry over the internet has blessed so many people. Here's the link so you can jump right in!

www.withpurpose.com/pastorswivesforum

enjoy!

Dr. Mohler is one of the most intelligent, articulate voices in evangelicalism today. I have so much respect for him and am so thankful that he's made it through his brush with death. This is a fair and balanced interview with a reporter from Time magazine.

A Calvinist Faces Death from Time magazine

Outspoken evangelical leader and president of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary Albert Mohler Jr.

After roughly 200 years of decline, Calvinism, the faith of the Puritans, has made a modest comeback among younger Evangelical Christians. One of the movement's potent mentors is Albert Mohler, the influential, telegenic head of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, who made waves last June when he critiqued the religious claims of presidential contender Barack Obama in an essay called Secularism With A Smile.

Mohler, a Calvinist, went into the hospital in December for a fairly routine stomach operation and suddenly developed pulmonary embolisms, a frequently fatal form of clotting, in both lungs. After emergency surgery and four days in the Intensive Care unit, he made a complete recovery. David Van Biema asked him whether his crisis could illuminate his brand of faith.

I'm happy to be talking to you!

And I'm happy to be talking to you! And thankful.

A few years ago you claimed that "everyone is a Calvinist in praying before surgery." Can you explain that?

Yeah. Absolutely. In this sort of crisis we all want God to be sovereign, all powerful — to be able to intervene decisively, to rule over every atom and molecule of the universe. My point was that lots of believers are more dependent on a Calvinist-style sovereign God than they realize when they make their theological claims.

Like who, for example?

The God of liberal theology — He's a linguistic symbol, or a vague kind of spirituality. I've heard liberal theologians who have said that in situations like mine God is basically active in helping you find our own inner resources. It was very apparent to me in the ICU that I had no inner resources. My trust was in the unlimited sovereignty of the God of the Bible. I shudder to think of going through that experience believing that there is no one in control.

Can you explain the nature of your prayer at that point?

I prayed to survive — but I think like most Christians, I prayed, "if it be Your will."

This may be rude, but what response would you expect from Calvinist friends in the event that you had died?

I'm human enough to hope they would grieve my loss, but praise God's mercy in allowing me to live as long as I had and to know that God's plan for me — and them — includes what we wouldn't have chosen, but that we know to be perfect and best
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At the most extreme moments, did you experience any unusual recognitions that reflected your theology?

Yes. In the ICU I couldn't make my brain work in the way I was accustomed to. I couldn't get the words and thoughts to work. But [somehow] I remembered Chapter eight, Verse 26, from the Book of Romans, that says that when we can't pray for ourselves the Holy Spirit intercedes for us with "groaning too deep for words."

Are you saying that that idea was meaningful, or that this was an example — that God placed that verse in your mind when you would not have been able to?

Maybe both. I had memorized it, but God provided it.

A keystone of Calvinism is predestination, and what most non-Calvinists may find odd is how you could be so sure that you were predestined for heaven if you didn't pull through. Or were you?

Yes. I do not see predestination as either a blind force. We have the assurance that "God chose us before we chose Him."

But what gives you that assurance? Isn't it possible for people to think that they believed, and be mistaken and not be saved?

It's not some kind of game. I believe it is possible for a person to wrongly believe they are saved, but it's because they don't really believe in Christ or otherwise confused the Gospel.

How do you know you're not one of them?

We are supposed to look for the signs in our lives, of regeneration and authentic faith, but we should not live in continual fear that we are somehow not assured of our salvation, because that too is a form of doubting God.

One misconception people may have about Calvinism is that it holds that Christians act as though they had free will — when God has orchestrated everything. Can you address that?

Calvinists believe that the human will is instrumental in the experience of salvation. We would take issue with the idea of absolute free will, where people are talking about the priority of the human will in salvation. The big question is whether it is possible for the divine and human wills to operate in absolute harmony. I believe it is.

How would a Calvinist have viewed your successful recovery versus a non-Calvinist?

Some non-Calvinists might say, I'm glad he survived, but I'm so sorry this accident happened to him. A Calvinist would say "God had something for him to learn through this that will be important for his formation for eternity."

And you've learned...

A lot of things. I've blogged about it. One of the things I was really struck by was an empathy, recognizing that even as I was in the ICU, I may have been the healthiest person there.

Anything else?

I want people to know this is not the experience of Al the Calvinist, but Al the Christian. I wasn't reciting Calvinist principles to myself in the hospital bed, but I was very much trusting in the sovereign God any Christian can know and trust.

Sitting on the sofa during family Bible time last night, asking questions from the Baptist Catechism from the Truth and Grace books by Founders Press, we asked our little P.T. (almost 4) to recite John 3:16:

"For God so loved the world that he gave his only son, that none should parachute..."

It's kind of a cool place where you can find a bunch of PW blogs. Hopefully, mine will be up soon. I'll have the link shortly in the side bar. Just no time today!

We got home from our long drive for my OB appt and the littlest guy's well-visit about dinner time and I had nothing ready ahead of time, but I remembered this super easy meal that everyone will eat:

Lemony Garlic Shrimp
1 package cooked, frozen shrimp (thawed in some warm water, tails removed)
2 tbsp butter, melted
1 tbsp minced garlic
1 tbsp worcestershire sauce
1 tsp lemon pepper seasoning
pinch cayenne pepper
2 tbsp lemon juice

Heat oven to 400. Layer shrimp on rimmed cookie sheet. Combine remaining ingredients and pour over shrimp. Cook about 10 minutes until heated through. Serve over instant brown rice and save all that yummy sauce to pour on top.

Everyone cleaned their plates and dinner was ready in about 20 minutes!

For those of you who check my blog, it would be just great if you could pray that I could get out of jury duty on Monday. I'm so pregnant there's just no way I could sit for that long, plus it's an hour from home and I'm going to the OB more frequently now. And when you're "unemployed" like I am (because keeping a home, schooling your kids doesn't count for anything and will only yield me a small pittance a day from the county government for my time) you don't get much out of it except the satistfaction of knowing you've done your civic duty. At least I pay my taxes...what more do they want from me?

Every day for us is different. Sometimes it all depends on how much hot water is left whether or not we start school on time. (No school till Mom's dressed! And of course, this morning the shower pipes are frozen AGAIN) Sometimes the house is in such disarray I can't possible think of starting school until it's picked up. Sometimes someone calls and I get drawn into a conversation. Sometimes I get such opposition from a certain little someone that I think he'll just be spending his morning on his bed. I've been doing this about a year now and I'm just wondering how to incorporate some more structure into our day--shouldn't it be getting easier by now? Is it just because I'm pregnant and don't feel like myself? Anyone out there with any ideas on how to better organize this crazy homeschooling adventure--help me please!!!!